Blog Comment: CUM FIESTA started eating, she changed the subject, asking me a lot of questions about myself: what subjects I liked in school, what I did with my friends, where I wanted to go to college, what I wanted to do when I "grew up"; pretty standard conversational fare between an adult and a teenager, which put me back into familiar territory. She even told me a little about herself: that she had divorced her husband nearly ten years ago, after only a year of marriage, but not before she became pregnant with her son, who was now the center of her life; that the men she met were either uninteresting and unimaginative, or else too controlling, and unwilling to allow her the kind of freedom she had become accustomed to.